Don’t Figure Yourself Out

A woman said to me today, “Well, I guess I just need to figure out what my wrong beliefs are and search for the scriptures that are the truth.” I cringed. And then I replied, “I think God is shepherding you in a way that you’ll realize that he wants to show you where...

How do you get the courage to quit dieting?

Q: How did you find the courage to change from dieting? I can’t emphasize how MUCH I desire freedom. But what will people think if I gain weight? What about all my clothes that won’t fit? Will my husband find me less attractive? A: The fear of gaining weight is the #1...

Dare to Be Counter-Cultural

This is what I hear repeatedly from women about their desire to lose weight:  “I just feel prettier when I’m thinner.” Then I ask, “Why do you consider yourself prettier if you’re thinner?” Answer: “I just do,” or “I just like myself more,” or “I just look better,” or...

The World’s Judgment

How many times a day do you say to yourself, “You’re fat! You need to lose weight! You’re ugly!”? When you judge yourself by your outward appearance, are you thinking and judging as God does? The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward...

Scary Food Restrictions

When we impose on ourselves food restrictions based on some form of “law,” such as a diet plan, it feels as though we’re doing the right thing, but check out this passage of Scripture: Since you died with Christ to the basic principles of this world, why, as though...